Hello gorgeous! 🩷
Today, I'd like to share with you some of the most ✨ IMPACTFUL ✨ actions I take regularly to really amplify my manifesting magnetism and create my BEST life!
5 Aligned Actions to Manifest Your BEST Life
A big component of mastering manifesting is taking aligned action when opportunity calls. The following are some of the most impactful (yet simple) aligned actions I take to significantly improve my quality of life (in all aspects). These actions also increase my manifesting magnetism 🧲 and empower me to truly live MY BEST LIFE no matter what. 🙌🏽
Keep in mind, these actions compound over time. These aren’t one-time moves; they are actions I take regularly (and now they're second-nature). They are especially helpful keeping me grounded and balanced throughout the inevitable chaos of life.
1️⃣ I Fiercely Embrace My Authentic Core Values
Getting clear on your authentic core values (i.e. the general themes of “stuff” in life that really lights you up), is the first step. Then you can begin intentionally adding more to your life that aligns with your values, while simultaneously releasing whatever does not. When you do the inner work to unblock anything that is preventing you from fully embracing your authentic core values, you maximize your results!
Believe it or not, honoring your values nurtures your soul, connects you to your purpose, and helps improve your general vibe. 💖
For example, my dominant core values are:
Time-Money Freedom
Spirituality & Personal Development
Creativity & Design
Radiance
I integrate each of these values daily by doing things like taking time to do my hair and makeup each day (honoring my values of radiance AND creativity), or by listening to audiobooks on spirituality in my free time. I’ve slowly but surely deleted activities that do not align with my values such as quitting smoking because it is the OPPOSITE of time-money freedom and donating clothes that don’t make me feel like my radiant AUTHENTIC self 💃🏼.
Following the things that light me up and embracing my authentic values have directly allowed me to do BIG things like:
✔ Overcoming my lifelong fear of public speaking
✔ Creating a ride-or-die tribe of amazing women
✔ Building a rental property portfolio
✔ Growing a prospering real estate business where I only do work I enjoy (and delegate the rest) so I can spend more time doing what I LOVE
The best part is, manifesting encompasses ALL of my values!
Here’s an exercise you can complete to get clear on your core values, too! 😊.
2️⃣ I firmly say “No” to Whatever Isn't Aligned with My Ultimate Vision
I cannot stress enough how important it is to say “NO” to anything that isn’t a “HELL YES” whenever possible.
NOTE: This does not mean neglecting your responsibilities. It means getting real about what you want (and what you value) and saying “no” to any activities, people, places, and things that don’t align. Sure, you may have to do things that aren’t so fun at the moment, but if these activities match your ultimate vision (which is definitely a YES), then they are also a yes.
Saying “no” to what isn’t aligned with your vision may require you to set boundaries (or cut ties) with people who repeatedly bring you down. It may require you to make small lifestyle changes like limiting the amount of time you scroll on social media, or you might need to make BIG changes like moving or starting a new career.
When you use your core values as a filter, it’s easy to pinpoint things that aren’t aligned with your heart’s truth. For example, I have substantially downsized the amount of “nostalgic junk” I hang on to because it conflicts with my values of both freedom and design (and clutter isn’t cute).
Adopting the “if it’s not a HELL YES, it’s a NO” mindset has also helped me avoid failing tests and prevented me from settling for something that isn’t a true match for what I want.
For example, I was offered an early morning speaking engagement for a local mom's organization. My knee-jerk reaction was to say yes because I love making new connections by empowering women with workshops, BUT I am not a morning person and it would give me great anxiety leading up to the event if I were to say yes to it.
Right after I declined this opportunity, I received a ✨divine download✨ to collaborate with a friend to create a monthly virtual networking group where I can regularly host workshops to connect with and empower women. In other words, saying "NO" to a misaligned opportunity freed up space for me to channel a much more ALIGNED opportunity: creating Beautiful Faces Going Places - Global Connections! 🥰
Talk about a BIG FAT ALIGNED WIN!
This leads me to the next aligned action…
3️⃣ I Invest In & Nurture a Tribe of Badass Women
It is impossible to explain how many wonderful things have come from investing in relationships with women who support and inspire me. 💗
This began being a BIG priority when I moved back to Charlotte in 2020 after a brief stint living in New Orleans. Despite THE PANDEMIC, I was determined to start building relationships with women who also valued personal growth and community because I was tired of dream-chasing alone.
For my first move, I joined a local women’s business group: the CHM Collective. Then I jumped into a CHM mastermind group with 5 other badass business babes. This was my first real taste of receiving support from a tribe of women who genuinely believed in me and valued my success. It was GAME-CHANGING!
Since then, I make a point to pour into my relationships with the women who nourish my soul and the ROI has been truly infinite! ♾️
Without the support of my tribe, there’s no way I could’ve made it through the darkest period of my life—the 2(ish) year period when I lost countless loved ones and family members right after going out on my own to be self-employed for the first time. My friends listened without judgment and encouraged me as my heart was being repeatedly shattered by loss.
Now I have many women in my life who cheer me on when I do big scary things and who hold me accountable when I veer off track.
If you don’t have a few trusted women in your life who truly see you and support you, who make you feel safe being vulnerable, and who love you no matter what. I encourage you to make it a top priority to!
The CHM Collective and Beautiful Faces Going Places are great groups to start. 😉
4️⃣ Self-Regulation is My Essential Self-Care
For so long, I thought mastering manifesting was all about subconscious reprogramming techniques (like mindset work) and deepening my spiritual connection. And while those things are absolutely powerful and necessary, I discovered they aren’t enough on their own.
The missing ingredient that transformed everything for me was self-regulation.
Self-regulation means intentionally taking measures to regulate my nervous system so I can experience stress, face challenges, and feel my emotions without getting thrown completely off course. For years, I was operating in survival mode, constantly in fight-or-flight. This made it hard for me to manifest because my energy was focused on simply getting through the day, not thriving.
Now, I have tools and practices in place to support my nervous system and help me feel grounded and safe, no matter what life throws at me.
Some of my favorite self-regulation techniques include:
Breathwork and meditation to create space for stillness and calm my body. 🧘🏼♀️
Movement practices like yoga or somatic exercise, which help release pent-up energy and stress.
Journaling and emotional processing, allowing me to feel my feelings without judgment and move through them instead of bottling them up.
Intentional rest and play, giving myself permission to slow down, be soft, and reconnect with my feminine energy... Oh, and I have lots of dance parties!!! 🪩
These practices haven’t just helped me manage stress—they’ve allowed me to reconnect with my intuition and inner softness, which is the heart of feminine, creative energy. I feel safe being soft again, and that safety has opened up so many doors in my manifesting journey. When I’m regulated, I feel more confident, more in flow, and more capable of making empowered decisions aligned with my highest self.
If you’ve been operating on autopilot or feeling overwhelmed by stress, I can’t recommend nervous system regulation enough. It’s like hitting the reset button on your energy, allowing you to vibrate higher and manifest with ease.
5️⃣ I Invest in My Expansion
This is ABSOLUTELY the most important and impactful aligned action I’ve ever taken: investing in ME.
Here’s the truth—no one else is going to do it for you. If you want to grow, expand, and truly live your best life, you have to be willing to invest in your own success. For me, that means hiring coaches, attending retreats, joining masterminds, and saying YES to opportunities that push me out of my comfort zone.
By investing in mentorship, I get:
Accountability to stay consistent and on track.
A fresh perspective, with someone who can see my blind spots and call me out when I’m holding myself back.
Support in co-creating my vision, turning my big, scary goals into actionable steps.
From a manifesting perspective, investing in myself is also one of the most powerful signals I can send to the Universe.
Every time I take a leap of faith to honor my expansion—whether it’s hiring a coach, attending an event, or making a bold move toward a dream—the Universe rewards me.
Why? Because I’m showing that I believe in myself and my worthiness to receive.
One of the scariest (and most rewarding) investments I ever made was hiring a coach when I was feeling completely stuck. I didn’t know how I was going to afford it, but I trusted that taking this leap was exactly what I needed.
Not only did I experience massive breakthroughs in my personal and professional life, but I also started manifesting more financial abundance than I ever thought possible. That’s the magic of aligned action—it opens the floodgates for more opportunities and blessings to flow in.
So here’s my challenge to you:
What’s one way you can invest in yourself today?
It doesn’t have to be a big, dramatic gesture. It could be as simple as signing up for a workshop, setting aside time for self-care, or saying YES to something that excites you.
Remember, every time you choose to invest in YOU, you’re telling the Universe that you’re ready for more. And trust me, the Universe always responds. 💫
As always, I'm here for you! If you'd like to get some extra support, let's find a time to connect.
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